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Early marriage
What's your point of view in this? For example, teenagers marrying early but is still in school. There are even cases where Muslim teenagers forced to marry early because of specific reasons such as they had sex outside their marriage. But I just wanna know what's your opinion about early marriage.
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Re: Early marriage
Usually this issue is for the "past Brunei people" because from what I know the generation living in the 1930ers was married when they aged between 15 till 21.
Early marriages occur due to some reason.
These are several reason I can think of:-
1) Due to what undevil said, they are married due to accidental babies.
2) The parents allow their daughter to be married because they want to have grand daughter before they died.
3) Due to some culture that force ladies aged between 15-21 to married early.
However, does early marriage succeed?
I don't really know because I am not married yet. So, thats just my point of view
Early marriages occur due to some reason.
These are several reason I can think of:-
1) Due to what undevil said, they are married due to accidental babies.
2) The parents allow their daughter to be married because they want to have grand daughter before they died.
3) Due to some culture that force ladies aged between 15-21 to married early.
However, does early marriage succeed?
I don't really know because I am not married yet. So, thats just my point of view
Re: Early marriage
People who marry early ( especially like students ) especially in our country;
this means that they want to hide their shame... if you guys know what i mean...
you know the couple had sex and all that, etc..resulting in the girl being pregnant..
and yeah like what k-mist*** lol said, early marriage could also happen due to
2nd and 3rd reason k-mist* stated above
and this might be some interesting information for you guys
well its religion related though ( hope im not off-topic XD )
here's the link to it:
http://www.iluvislam.com/v1/readarticle.php?article_id=682
the article is in malay though..
anyways just want to tell you guys about this..
edit: haha and the thing making early marriage 'available' in brunei is because of..
well you can find the answer here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriageable_age
XD
this means that they want to hide their shame... if you guys know what i mean...
you know the couple had sex and all that, etc..resulting in the girl being pregnant..
and yeah like what k-mist*** lol said, early marriage could also happen due to
2nd and 3rd reason k-mist* stated above
and this might be some interesting information for you guys
well its religion related though ( hope im not off-topic XD )
here's the link to it:
http://www.iluvislam.com/v1/readarticle.php?article_id=682
the article is in malay though..
anyways just want to tell you guys about this..
edit: haha and the thing making early marriage 'available' in brunei is because of..
well you can find the answer here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriageable_age
XD
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Re: Early marriage
Brunei: No minimum marriage age specified
LOL.
und3vil- Admin
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Re: Early marriage
What do you think? Is it true that the main reason for early marriage is "deep love"??
For me, I don't think so, Even if you are in love with that person, you won't marry him or her. My reason is that, the culture in Brunei is "too good" that we follow exactly what our parents and religion wants.
Well, I have no strong proof about this but it is just what I think.
Even in the past 60 years people married without love but they make love after the marriage and fall in love because of "making love"
So, early marriages isn't that bad at all, you can taste the feeling of making love and experienced it at your early age. so how does it sound? Cool ayt?
For me, I don't think so, Even if you are in love with that person, you won't marry him or her. My reason is that, the culture in Brunei is "too good" that we follow exactly what our parents and religion wants.
Well, I have no strong proof about this but it is just what I think.
Even in the past 60 years people married without love but they make love after the marriage and fall in love because of "making love"
So, early marriages isn't that bad at all, you can taste the feeling of making love and experienced it at your early age. so how does it sound? Cool ayt?
Re: Early marriage
ahahahaha XD ya coooooL mama
but marrying early could have some potential disadvantages
like, after the marriage, do you have a job and a salary that's good enough to keep the couple
sufficient at least to buy things for their household, etc? if you they depend on their old woman/man
and always bragging them for money that's n00bish lol apakan
hmm but if you were a professional footballer then if you're married at an early age that's not bad
cause they have the miLLions poundin' XD lol
but marrying early could have some potential disadvantages
like, after the marriage, do you have a job and a salary that's good enough to keep the couple
sufficient at least to buy things for their household, etc? if you they depend on their old woman/man
and always bragging them for money that's n00bish lol apakan
hmm but if you were a professional footballer then if you're married at an early age that's not bad
cause they have the miLLions poundin' XD lol
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Re: Early marriage
haha, of course im the man! =P cuz im a member in a band called 'The GayBoyz'... uhh.. now that sounded so wrong to be in that group lol, lol jk
so.. speaking of early marriage.. umm if you guys dont mind, when will be the ideal/preferred age for y'all to marry? lol :P:P
so.. speaking of early marriage.. umm if you guys dont mind, when will be the ideal/preferred age for y'all to marry? lol :P:P
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Re: Early marriage
haha yeah 30 seems like a very cooL age to get married.. no, w-wait..
why not below 30 lol? you better marry at an earlier age than that or else
if you couldn't find your life partner many years later after you're 30 then
let's say.. you target at young girls for exampLe... you're a pedooooooooophiLe !! XDDDD
hahaha sick, sick ahah XD
lol just kidding
you're a doctor, so.. you shouLd marry earLy... there's no apparent reason though why is that haha
why not below 30 lol? you better marry at an earlier age than that or else
if you couldn't find your life partner many years later after you're 30 then
let's say.. you target at young girls for exampLe... you're a pedooooooooophiLe !! XDDDD
hahaha sick, sick ahah XD
lol just kidding
you're a doctor, so.. you shouLd marry earLy... there's no apparent reason though why is that haha
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Re: Early marriage
I think NOW is the right time for the marriage!! haaha
Well, just a joke~
I think the best ideal time for marriage is during the 20th years old for the man. The range are from 20-27 because if you exceed 27 a lot have to be done and you are too late for something
just a view of mine~
Well, just a joke~
I think the best ideal time for marriage is during the 20th years old for the man. The range are from 20-27 because if you exceed 27 a lot have to be done and you are too late for something
just a view of mine~
Re: Early marriage
I would personally go for 25
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Re: Early marriage
Men at the age of 27 at women at the age of 24? Agree? Put ur hand in the ayer.. a.. ayer.. ayer.. a.. Hahaha wth
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Re: Early marriage
Dr H wrote:haha
the older you are,the more experience you can get...haha
*putting my hands up in the ayer ayer ayer* lol apakan
hmm seems like everyone here wants to marry earLy around at the age of 20-ish
with the exception of Dr H though........ haha maybe cause he's a nerd.. :P:P:P
that's why he wants to marry at the age 30 =P
ahahah
oh yah, and what do you mean by 'experience' , D0ct0r H? =PP~
would you mind explain to us more about it? =PPP jangan2 doctor h*ntai ni ahah XD lol jk
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Re: Early marriage
:P:P:P:P:P:P:P:P
hahahas~
lol oh ya i havent state when is my preferred age to get married..
umm maybe i'd go for.. 20 something .. yah.. cooL~
hahahas~
lol oh ya i havent state when is my preferred age to get married..
umm maybe i'd go for.. 20 something .. yah.. cooL~
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Re: Early marriage
LOOOOL
you got me cracking out there with your above post XD lolololol
How dare you say that lol ~~~ you think there will be no boys,, i mean no *girls* who wanna marry me~? T_T~~ hahaha ok chiLL eh lol let's end this Dr H - MrLoL war~ and it will officially now~ hopefully haha ~ XD
well how about you.. ? lol if you are unable to find someone to marry you, its okayy~~
there's always me ~~ if you asked me to be ur wife~ i' d say yes~~ okay Doc? hahaha
dang this gay-love must stop .........lololol
you got me cracking out there with your above post XD lolololol
How dare you say that lol ~~~ you think there will be no boys,, i mean no *girls* who wanna marry me~? T_T~~ hahaha ok chiLL eh lol let's end this Dr H - MrLoL war~ and it will officially now~ hopefully haha ~ XD
well how about you.. ? lol if you are unable to find someone to marry you, its okayy~~
there's always me ~~ if you asked me to be ur wife~ i' d say yes~~ okay Doc? hahaha
dang this gay-love must stop .........lololol
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Re: Early marriage
NO GAYS ALLOWED!
Hey boy,you as youth of our religion...should know what is sin...and it is a sin to marry with the same sex...LOL2
Hey boy,you as youth of our religion...should know what is sin...and it is a sin to marry with the same sex...LOL2
Re: Early marriage
Yes i know that, you know i was just kidding with this.. 'gayness' :P
haha, lol yeh of course i would marry a person of the opposite sex, not the same sex of course! ahah~ lolz~
hmm so should this thread be closed? too lot of spam here done by me an dr H ahah =P
haha, lol yeh of course i would marry a person of the opposite sex, not the same sex of course! ahah~ lolz~
hmm so should this thread be closed? too lot of spam here done by me an dr H ahah =P
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